Agreed. Much as you may think that the father is a loser, the baby does belong to both of you equally. The fact that you're the one giving birth is just the way biology happens to have worked things out -- if your roles were switched, do you think it would be fair of him not to tell you?
In any case, whatever you decide to do, good luck and congratulations.
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Date: 2005-06-29 06:09 am (UTC)In any case, whatever you decide to do, good luck and congratulations.