Generally the only event that eradicates the hymen completely is childbirth. So don't worry if you still have pieces of yours. That's just one of the reasons why defining virginity on the state of one's hymen is silliness -- even "non-virgins" often still have them, and unless you have an imperforate hymen (a bad thing, because then your menstrual blood can't come out), you are born with a "torn hymen."
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Date: 2005-05-17 09:49 pm (UTC)