i have been having sex with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. When he first enters me (even if i am worked up), it often hurts for a second or two until my body adjusts. However i do quickly adjust and do not experience pain throughout the rest of intercourse (well baring things hitting wrong etc.). Also, after i cum i tend to get quite sensitive and sex can become a bit painful, so if you are orgasming often before sex that COULD be part of the problem. Also, how often are you having sex? cuz oftentimes if it is very infrequent, it is possible that your vag has'nt been err stretched properly? (if that made no sense i'm fighting with my boy and attempting to finish a term paper...). So basic advice, try more lube, have more frequent sex, don't cum before intercourse, and go LOW, waitng for a few seconds after insertion, can be a HUGE help. also if the pain is only for the first second or two, thats not that abnormal (well atleast it's normal for me :)).
Now if the pain IS extremely bad, and for the duration of intercourse, or if things don't get better after the advice from the lovely ladies at vagpag, i would highly recomend going to see your gyn, perhaps there is something up that you are unaware of :).
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Date: 2005-05-05 03:36 am (UTC)Also, how often are you having sex? cuz oftentimes if it is very infrequent, it is possible that your vag has'nt been err stretched properly? (if that made no sense i'm fighting with my boy and attempting to finish a term paper...).
So basic advice, try more lube, have more frequent sex, don't cum before intercourse, and go LOW, waitng for a few seconds after insertion, can be a HUGE help. also if the pain is only for the first second or two, thats not that abnormal (well atleast it's normal for me :)).
Now if the pain IS extremely bad, and for the duration of intercourse, or if things don't get better after the advice from the lovely ladies at vagpag, i would highly recomend going to see your gyn, perhaps there is something up that you are unaware of :).