Excuse my forthcoming language but make a big fuck off scene please.
You've said no on repeated occasions and from what you've said he's either ignored your feeling or emotionally coerced you into giving in displaying alarming disregard for you and rights. Despite how wonderful he is to you 99% of the time in that 1% that he wasn't and isn't, continuing to have sex with you when you were in pain, unwell or not in the mood he has abused your trust in him. My personal feelings on the matter are that when he continued to have sex with you when you were in pain that stepped into assault.
You've made your feeling to him known and I urge you so strongly to enforce that you when you say no it means no in huge flashing neon signs. If he can't accept that then walk out of the bedroom and if need be stay at a friends place for the night as apparently he needs to be hit over the head with a brick to make the point really clear to him.
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Date: 2012-05-01 01:48 pm (UTC)You've said no on repeated occasions and from what you've said he's either ignored your feeling or emotionally coerced you into giving in displaying alarming disregard for you and rights. Despite how wonderful he is to you 99% of the time in that 1% that he wasn't and isn't, continuing to have sex with you when you were in pain, unwell or not in the mood he has abused your trust in him. My personal feelings on the matter are that when he continued to have sex with you when you were in pain that stepped into assault.
You've made your feeling to him known and I urge you so strongly to enforce that you when you say no it means no in huge flashing neon signs. If he can't accept that then walk out of the bedroom and if need be stay at a friends place for the night as apparently he needs to be hit over the head with a brick to make the point really clear to him.