It's so nice to get a guy's perspective. I will defo try be more assertive and specific next time around. To his credit, he was trying, and I didn't voice my needs....I don't know why....well I can probably guess, but that's a whole other discussion.
I try, as in all areas of my life, to be diplomatic about voicing my needs......in bed, I try to make it seem sexy or resort to humor when all else fails, but somehow his needs still end up trumping mine. It's not so much about the orgasm, as I can get them solo easily, but I'd just like to have one with another person....just to see what it feels like.
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Date: 2011-12-29 11:34 pm (UTC)It's so nice to get a guy's perspective. I will defo try be more assertive and specific next time around. To his credit, he was trying, and I didn't voice my needs....I don't know why....well I can probably guess, but that's a whole other discussion.
I try, as in all areas of my life, to be diplomatic about voicing my needs......in bed, I try to make it seem sexy or resort to humor when all else fails, but somehow his needs still end up trumping mine. It's not so much about the orgasm, as I can get them solo easily, but I'd just like to have one with another person....just to see what it feels like.