I have never used an enema before anal sex, but I do think it sounds like a pretty good idea to clean things up a bit. Whenever I've had anal, I've never used a condom. I haven't had any problems whatsoever. The only risks that I can think of are STDs (which you can already rule out) and anal tearing (which won't happen if you use plenty of lube).
And YESSSS you can have an orgasm from anal sex! One of the best orgasms I have EVER had was having anal sex while doing reverse cowgirl style. It also intensifies the experience if you have a vibrator to hold on your clit during the process. Sometimes I'll even have a dildo in my vagina and hold a vibrator to my clit while having anal.
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Date: 2011-12-05 04:32 am (UTC)And YESSSS you can have an orgasm from anal sex! One of the best orgasms I have EVER had was having anal sex while doing reverse cowgirl style. It also intensifies the experience if you have a vibrator to hold on your clit during the process. Sometimes I'll even have a dildo in my vagina and hold a vibrator to my clit while having anal.