I would definitely second the advice to relax; in my experience I always enjoy myself more when I don't focus on touching myself in a specific place, but just touching myself wherever feels good. Also I try to focus on just feeling good, but not necessarily having an orgasm. It takes some of the pressure off, helps me relax, and makes masturbation more calm. Whatever you do, just enjoy yourself!
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Date: 2011-11-29 11:21 am (UTC)