Thank you so much for posting this. I'd been having the same problems as you--I don't like masturbating because it does nothing for me. Only recently did I become somewhat aroused from it.
I recently had sex for the first time and I have yet to experience an orgasm. I feel like I reach some sort of limit and I can't go any further. I've gotten oral and fingering, but I can't seem to come from clitoral stimulation. Actually, penetration, be it with his fingers or penis, is the closest I get to feeling anything.
I'm going to look into clitoral adhesion, because it sounds like something I could potentially have. My clitoral hood is larger than average (at least from what I've seen), so I could very well have that problem.
Of course, it could be a variety of issues causing my lack of stimulation and preventing orgasm: newbie to the whole sex thing, not being completely comfortable with the guy, etc. But I'm glad I have something else I could look into.
Thank you again for taking the time to detail your experiences!
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Date: 2011-04-12 01:04 am (UTC)Thank you so much for posting this. I'd been having the same problems as you--I don't like masturbating because it does nothing for me. Only recently did I become somewhat aroused from it.
I recently had sex for the first time and I have yet to experience an orgasm. I feel like I reach some sort of limit and I can't go any further. I've gotten oral and fingering, but I can't seem to come from clitoral stimulation. Actually, penetration, be it with his fingers or penis, is the closest I get to feeling anything.
I'm going to look into clitoral adhesion, because it sounds like something I could potentially have. My clitoral hood is larger than average (at least from what I've seen), so I could very well have that problem.
Of course, it could be a variety of issues causing my lack of stimulation and preventing orgasm: newbie to the whole sex thing, not being completely comfortable with the guy, etc. But I'm glad I have something else I could look into.
Thank you again for taking the time to detail your experiences!