When I was newly sexually active, sex would always hurt and burn. When I became more experienced, had sex regularly (and got a partner who was extremely into oral and mucho-extended foreplay), I noticed that I sort of 'stretched' to fit my boyfriend, and also that I would lubricate more easily and copiously. It stopped being painful after that.
I'm thinking this might be the case (or similar) with you. Don't worry! Just use some lube (or spit, whichever works best for you) in the meantime and you'll be laughing. :)
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Date: 2011-02-08 05:04 am (UTC)I'm thinking this might be the case (or similar) with you. Don't worry! Just use some lube (or spit, whichever works best for you) in the meantime and you'll be laughing. :)
Sorry, I can't help with the discharge.