since you've never had an orgasm I am going to make some assumptions but please correct me if I am wrong. I think it is possible that you are putting too much pressure on yourself to orgasm a specific way? Some women orgasm by clit stimulation only, or penetration only or with a combination. Some people orgasm in different ways depending on their mood or what feels good every time.
I have found that my sexuality, libido and things that have turned me on has developed/changed/evolved/devolved? through out the years. What used to get me off each and every time might only work if I had no other option for an uncomfortable amount of time (a week or more). I just don't even try that old way anymore.
So, you never know. It could be something as simple as no penetration or more lube or not touching the clit until you start to get really aroused.
FWIW I did not have my first (awake) orgasm until I was about 23 (though I did have wet dreams).
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Date: 2010-03-05 04:16 am (UTC)I have found that my sexuality, libido and things that have turned me on has developed/changed/evolved/devolved? through out the years. What used to get me off each and every time might only work if I had no other option for an uncomfortable amount of time (a week or more). I just don't even try that old way anymore.
So, you never know. It could be something as simple as no penetration or more lube or not touching the clit until you start to get really aroused.
FWIW I did not have my first (awake) orgasm until I was about 23 (though I did have wet dreams).