I'm sort of confused by what you are asking exactly, but I'll give it a shot. Back when I kept questioning myself, I talked to a good friend of mine and she asked me if I could picture myself kissing a girl, and if I could then it was more than just a feeling I was getting. Then I thought about the girl that I had a crush on and I had told her I wasn't so sure of myself. But after dating for over a month, I realized it was definitely more than a phase and I really did like her and felt attracted to her like I had to every person I had before her and even more. She knew I was still unsure of myself and she was fine with that and flexible with me. I'm here nine months later, and I'm still with her. I think the best way is just to act on it and see how it takes you and be open with the person you're with. Thinking 'what if' for a while will never really get you anywhere, imo.
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Date: 2010-02-07 02:40 am (UTC)Back when I kept questioning myself, I talked to a good friend of mine and she asked me if I could picture myself kissing a girl, and if I could then it was more than just a feeling I was getting. Then I thought about the girl that I had a crush on and I had told her I wasn't so sure of myself. But after dating for over a month, I realized it was definitely more than a phase and I really did like her and felt attracted to her like I had to every person I had before her and even more. She knew I was still unsure of myself and she was fine with that and flexible with me. I'm here nine months later, and I'm still with her. I think the best way is just to act on it and see how it takes you and be open with the person you're with. Thinking 'what if' for a while will never really get you anywhere, imo.
I hope I answered your question. |D