I actually thought about that - too a lot of people it isn't a low sex drive and it's normal. It was just normal for us, lol.
I can actually finish from PIV from most positions - it's just that he never lasts long enough for me to get there. It's even fairly easy to get me off - just some clit stimulation and I'm good to go! It's just getting him there that's the problem, either he doesn't last or doesn't want too.
You are most certainly not over-stepping. It is kind of an ego blow for me, however, to go from like 4 times a day, to maybe 1 in such a short amount of time and his reluctance to my girly parts is fairly aggravating. I mean he's the only guy who would ever have sex with me on my period but he can't go down on me? or touch me? really? Being exasperated makes me take a step back and I feel like I'm focusing too much on sex sometimes, but it's just so.. annoying. I can't help but feel like he doesn't want me sadly.
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Date: 2010-01-12 11:31 pm (UTC)I can actually finish from PIV from most positions - it's just that he never lasts long enough for me to get there. It's even fairly easy to get me off - just some clit stimulation and I'm good to go! It's just getting him there that's the problem, either he doesn't last or doesn't want too.
You are most certainly not over-stepping. It is kind of an ego blow for me, however, to go from like 4 times a day, to maybe 1 in such a short amount of time and his reluctance to my girly parts is fairly aggravating. I mean he's the only guy who would ever have sex with me on my period but he can't go down on me? or touch me? really? Being exasperated makes me take a step back and I feel like I'm focusing too much on sex sometimes, but it's just so.. annoying. I can't help but feel like he doesn't want me sadly.