I don't know how much your husband worries about coming so quickly, but I know that the fear of premature ejaculation was actually what was causing my boyfriend to come so quickly for a while. If he's worried about it, maybe talk to him and let him know that he should just relax and not freak out about it. How is his sleeping? Sleep deprivation is also a major factor in coming quickly.
I'd have to agree with the other comments, however, that the most important thing to consider here is how he's not willing to perform other sexual acts on you, and how you're not feeling satisfied. If you can get him accustomed to the idea of using his hands/a vibrator on you, I would suggest working on your sexual pleasure first and then engaging in PiV. That way everyone can be happy...he can relax after he's come and you can be satisfied!
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Date: 2010-01-12 08:23 pm (UTC)I'd have to agree with the other comments, however, that the most important thing to consider here is how he's not willing to perform other sexual acts on you, and how you're not feeling satisfied. If you can get him accustomed to the idea of using his hands/a vibrator on you, I would suggest working on your sexual pleasure first and then engaging in PiV. That way everyone can be happy...he can relax after he's come and you can be satisfied!
Best of luck.