I agree. If the genders on this story were switched, so the guy was pressuring the girl to keep continuing despite her clear indications that she was NOT into it, we'd be calling the cops.
OP, you're not entitled to orgasms from your partner. Stop pressuring him. Instead, sit down some time when you both have your clothes on and talk to him about what you want and need sexually. Don't act like he has an obligation to do exactly what pleases you, because he doesn't. Instead, try to figure out if you two are really compatible sexually. Accept the possibility that you're not. And if you're not, break up before things get any worse.
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Date: 2009-04-05 06:10 pm (UTC)OP, you're not entitled to orgasms from your partner. Stop pressuring him. Instead, sit down some time when you both have your clothes on and talk to him about what you want and need sexually. Don't act like he has an obligation to do exactly what pleases you, because he doesn't. Instead, try to figure out if you two are really compatible sexually. Accept the possibility that you're not. And if you're not, break up before things get any worse.