Well, I think any guy (or girl) should be honoured to visit your 'private neighbourhood', and it should be just that - YOURS!
If you want to see what choices other girls have made, take a look at the "Everyday Bodies Project", here at VP! http://community.livejournal.com/vaginapagina/tag/everyday-bodies-project-posts
Any time I hear some girl say "I'm weird 'down there'!", I show them this, and a few other sites, an most of them realize that there is a LOT of variety, they're all different, and all NORMAL - and so is she!
Part of me worries about the current 'Bare' style, because I sometimes feel that girls are trying to meet 'Porn Star' standards, and there's something a little 'creepy' about people expecting girls to look 'Pre-Pubescent', by being hairless. Then again, for some people it's about their own comfort, how the bareness affects their 'sensitivity', easier to keep the area clean and fresh, and a lot of other reasons.
Going Natural is, well, 'Natural'! That's how we're designed, the amount is genetic (Thanks, Mom, Grandma, etc), and actually the hair kind of keeps your personal 'scent' natural (I don't want a flower garden down there, myself), for a lot of people the hair ADDS to sensitivity (brushing across just the hairs can be 'Ooooh!, in a good way) - Plus there's the whole "Low Maintenance" concept, which is a big 'Plus', and the lack of razor burn and ingrown hairs! We're all different, but that's a GOOD thing, IMHO!
Lately, I'm 'Middle of the Road', Natural but Neatly Trimmed, and I use a standard drugstore men's beard trimmer to keep things 'under control', and a little 'edge trimming' for appearance sake in bathing suits, etc, and it makes ME feel 'Well Groomed', like why I trim, pluck, and contour my eyebrows.
I think it should be like your hair style, style of makeup, clothing style, everything that's usually visible to the public - Whatever YOU are comfortable with! I think it's a part of my personality, and no-one else can tell me what's right for ME! I certainly take my partner's preference into account, but that's just one small factor that goes into my decision - It's MINE, dammit, you wear yours your way, I'll wear mine my way!
BE YOURSELF, and be happy with your own choice! 99% of your partners will be fine with it - and you really don't want to be with someone in that 1%, because next they'll want to decide your hairstyle, clothes, makeup, and pretty much take over your life, and that's NEVER Good!
Have Fun with your New Boy, and remember, he's the lucky one, for being allowed in your 'Magic Garden'! =D
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Date: 2008-11-29 03:50 pm (UTC)If you want to see what choices other girls have made, take a look at the "Everyday Bodies Project", here at VP!
http://community.livejournal.com/vaginapagina/tag/everyday-bodies-project-posts
Any time I hear some girl say "I'm weird 'down there'!", I show them this, and a few other sites, an most of them realize that there is a LOT of variety, they're all different, and all NORMAL - and so is she!
Part of me worries about the current 'Bare' style, because I sometimes feel that girls are trying to meet 'Porn Star' standards, and there's something a little 'creepy' about people expecting girls to look 'Pre-Pubescent', by being hairless. Then again, for some people it's about their own comfort, how the bareness affects their 'sensitivity', easier to keep the area clean and fresh, and a lot of other reasons.
Going Natural is, well, 'Natural'! That's how we're designed, the amount is genetic (Thanks, Mom, Grandma, etc), and actually the hair kind of keeps your personal 'scent' natural (I don't want a flower garden down there, myself), for a lot of people the hair ADDS to sensitivity (brushing across just the hairs can be 'Ooooh!, in a good way) - Plus there's the whole "Low Maintenance" concept, which is a big 'Plus', and the lack of razor burn and ingrown hairs! We're all different, but that's a GOOD thing, IMHO!
Lately, I'm 'Middle of the Road', Natural but Neatly Trimmed, and I use a standard drugstore men's beard trimmer to keep things 'under control', and a little 'edge trimming' for appearance sake in bathing suits, etc, and it makes ME feel 'Well Groomed', like why I trim, pluck, and contour my eyebrows.
I think it should be like your hair style, style of makeup, clothing style, everything that's usually visible to the public - Whatever YOU are comfortable with! I think it's a part of my personality, and no-one else can tell me what's right for ME! I certainly take my partner's preference into account, but that's just one small factor that goes into my decision - It's MINE, dammit, you wear yours your way, I'll wear mine my way!
BE YOURSELF, and be happy with your own choice! 99% of your partners will be fine with it - and you really don't want to be with someone in that 1%, because next they'll want to decide your hairstyle, clothes, makeup, and pretty much take over your life, and that's NEVER Good!
Have Fun with your New Boy, and remember, he's the lucky one, for being allowed in your 'Magic Garden'! =D
ps: Oral is a LOT of Fun - ENJOY! *giggle*