I have been in a similar situation, and the reason it went on so long is that you cannot be nice, at all. Either be completely mean to him, to his face, or call the cops and have them do it for you, because it's not going to go away on its own. If you don't do something soon, the situation may escalate to the point where you don't have any options besides the law. Sorry, but in my experience, them's the breaks.
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Date: 2008-11-22 06:15 am (UTC)