Through my experience I have come to look at life and relationships as a dance. The most successful relationships are those where you learn to dance together.... to respond, to react, to accept, to change steps, to communicate through subtle gestures and a shift in energy without the need for verbal communication. It's complex and rich and takes a lot of time and practice to master. But, in the end if you take this approach you might find that it's a useful change in perspective that will help how you feel and how you respond to his ever-changing moods just as he is constantly changing and adjusting his steps to better match your own.
Anyhow, it's all just a thought that I wanted to share...... I hope that some of it helps somehow..... Good luck, sweetie navigating your tender emotions. I know how hard it can be at times. *hugs*
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Date: 2008-05-13 12:30 pm (UTC)Through my experience I have come to look at life and relationships as a dance. The most successful relationships are those where you learn to dance together.... to respond, to react, to accept, to change steps, to communicate through subtle gestures and a shift in energy without the need for verbal communication. It's complex and rich and takes a lot of time and practice to master. But, in the end if you take this approach you might find that it's a useful change in perspective that will help how you feel and how you respond to his ever-changing moods just as he is constantly changing and adjusting his steps to better match your own.
Anyhow, it's all just a thought that I wanted to share...... I hope that some of it helps somehow..... Good luck, sweetie navigating your tender emotions. I know how hard it can be at times. *hugs*