i consider myself to be a sexual 'deviant'. while i'm not into s&m i tend to be interested in other areas of bdsm where my partner is in the controlling role...maybe that has something to do with it? i liked being spanked with my partner, maybe it's because i chose to do it, or maybe being spanked trains you to somehow like it? who knows! i won't bore you with the other stuff but i consider myself to be a deviant because i am open to various sexual things that i think most people aren't. i know i'm not doing that with my kids!
i do have sex without a condom(we educatedly choose to do the pull out method, my partner is 38 and seems to be very in control with himself) and i haven't been married yet. i've never been the one to really initiate sex, with my ex he did but i didn't want to, with my current we both did.lol
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Date: 2008-03-02 02:50 am (UTC)i consider myself to be a sexual 'deviant'. while i'm not into s&m i tend to be interested in other areas of bdsm where my partner is in the controlling role...maybe that has something to do with it? i liked being spanked with my partner, maybe it's because i chose to do it, or maybe being spanked trains you to somehow like it? who knows! i won't bore you with the other stuff but i consider myself to be a deviant because i am open to various sexual things that i think most people aren't. i know i'm not doing that with my kids!
i do have sex without a condom(we educatedly choose to do the pull out method, my partner is 38 and seems to be very in control with himself) and i haven't been married yet. i've never been the one to really initiate sex, with my ex he did but i didn't want to, with my current we both did.lol