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[emo-princess.livejournal.com]

When I have sex it still hurts really bad..I have no clue if this is going to be an every time thing or not!! I mean I have had sex with my boyfriend about 6 or 7 times now and it doesnt seem to be getting any less painful for me. I was just wondering if maybe this is normal and if others experience this as well??

Also my boyfriend noticed that when he fingered me there was a lil' hump right when he put his finger in like his fingers had to go over a lump to get to the "good stuff". So I have no idea what this would be or if its normal or what?? please help because I am quite scared!!

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[mactavish.livejournal.com]

Are you wet when you're having sex? Have you tried using lube?

What do you mean by "the good stuff" -- your vagina? (It's hard to tell from what you write. Different people consider different places to be "good stuff.")

Does it feel good to you when he fingers you?

[emo-princess.livejournal.com]

yes I am very wet when we have sex the entire time. So I dont use a lube.

by the "good stuff" I mean like for me to enjoy it he has to go over this lump. It feels way better when he fingers me then when we have sex. So I just dont know if this is normal or not..thanx babes

Heather

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I still don't know where "the good stuff" is. It could be in the vagina (then the lump could be your pubic bone or your cervix) or your vulva (then the lump could be your clit).

Your vagina is only the inside part, where tampons go. The outside wet parts are your vulva.

I like intercourse, but I don't usually get off on intercourse all by itself. I need some sort of stimulation on my clit. Being fingered or tongued is much more predictable. But I don't prefer one or the other, I like them both. If I want to get off while I'm having intercourse, I use my finger or a vibrator on my clit.

Are you fairly well aware of your anatomy, like what's there, and why? Do you know what feels good when you masturbate? You could ask him to do similar things. Take it easy on the intercourse, go slowly and take your time. Ask him to stop when it hurts, and try other things for awhile. There's no rush.

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

And please please please check out these links:
http://www.vaginapagina.com/links.php
Those in the "anatomy" section might be incredibly useful.