http://emo-princess.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] emo-princess.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] vaginapagina2003-10-10 08:15 am
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When I have sex it still hurts really bad..I have no clue if this is going to be an every time thing or not!! I mean I have had sex with my boyfriend about 6 or 7 times now and it doesnt seem to be getting any less painful for me. I was just wondering if maybe this is normal and if others experience this as well??

Also my boyfriend noticed that when he fingered me there was a lil' hump right when he put his finger in like his fingers had to go over a lump to get to the "good stuff". So I have no idea what this would be or if its normal or what?? please help because I am quite scared!!

[identity profile] emmett-the-sane.livejournal.com 2003-10-10 10:43 am (UTC)(link)
As for the "lump" - I suspect you're talking about your pubic bone

That was my guess, too, especially since she said "inside", and indicated that the hump itself wasn't the good part. My thought is that she's talking about her g-spot.

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Emo, I'm sorry that intercourse is painful for you. While I'm very much behind the idea that others have said about seeing a doctor, I also recommend perusing the book For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0451202007/qid=1065807104/sr=2-1/ref=sr_2_1/002-8550849-0772054). It's a book that I read (I'm male) because my first gf had very similar kinds of problems to yours. Written by a sex therapist, it takes a very non-clinical approach to explaining all aspects of female sexuality from a practical, useful point of view (much of it applies equally well to some men, I've found).