All vaginas are different. I love the VP Everyday Bodies Project in that respect, you get to see so many different vaginas and chances are, one will look like yours.
After I had my son, I hated the look of my genitals. My stretch marks went all the way down to my mons (I had polyhydramniosis - probably spelled wrong, sorry - and I was HUGE with a massive low belly). Then I had an emergency c section and when they sewed up the scar, I thought it made the skin on my mons look saggy.
I got used to it, by telling myself it was a: for a good reason and b: realising that don't nobody gonna tell me that my cunt aint pretty, no matter what it looks like.
Don't look at porn and glamour models for examples of what genitals look like. They're a very slim section of the population, and a lot of photos are edited anyway.
If you really struggle with this, to the point where you'd consider getting it cosmetically corrected, I'd recommend seeing a therapist. They can do wonders with self esteem and body issues.
Honestly, I've seen many genitals (I watch porn, have done work experience in the gyn field and am bisexual) and I've never in my life seen an ugly vagina, and doubt I ever will. I'm sure yours is pretty too, so love it. It deserves it.
So what if it looks out of proportion? I'm sure no one will notice, and any partners you have will love it (and if they don't, get rid of them!). Stupid stereotypes of what genitals 'should' look like are irrelevant really. I used to hate my vulva because my inner labia are longer than my outer labia. The EBP helped me to realise that at least 30% of womens vulvaes are like this, and that they can be pretty too. When a man told me that he thought my cunt didn't look pretty because my inner labia were unevenly long, I told him to leave and said I'd hope the door would hit him in the ass on the way out!
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All vaginas are different. I love the VP Everyday Bodies Project in that respect, you get to see so many different vaginas and chances are, one will look like yours.
After I had my son, I hated the look of my genitals. My stretch marks went all the way down to my mons (I had polyhydramniosis - probably spelled wrong, sorry - and I was HUGE with a massive low belly). Then I had an emergency c section and when they sewed up the scar, I thought it made the skin on my mons look saggy.
I got used to it, by telling myself it was a: for a good reason and b: realising that don't nobody gonna tell me that my cunt aint pretty, no matter what it looks like.
Don't look at porn and glamour models for examples of what genitals look like. They're a very slim section of the population, and a lot of photos are edited anyway.
If you really struggle with this, to the point where you'd consider getting it cosmetically corrected, I'd recommend seeing a therapist. They can do wonders with self esteem and body issues.
Honestly, I've seen many genitals (I watch porn, have done work experience in the gyn field and am bisexual) and I've never in my life seen an ugly vagina, and doubt I ever will. I'm sure yours is pretty too, so love it. It deserves it.
So what if it looks out of proportion? I'm sure no one will notice, and any partners you have will love it (and if they don't, get rid of them!). Stupid stereotypes of what genitals 'should' look like are irrelevant really. I used to hate my vulva because my inner labia are longer than my outer labia. The EBP helped me to realise that at least 30% of womens vulvaes are like this, and that they can be pretty too. When a man told me that he thought my cunt didn't look pretty because my inner labia were unevenly long, I told him to leave and said I'd hope the door would hit him in the ass on the way out!