Relationship Milestones

[ruari-explained.livejournal.com]

I've recently started to see someone new and it got me thinking. How do you decided when to advance the relationship physically (ie kissing, oral, spending the night, sex)? Do you have a set amount of time, like 3 dates before having sex for example, or does it depend on the person?

I just feel silly thinking like "Well, on Tuesday I'll do this for the first time, and then when I see him next week, we'll go to third base. If things progress well, I'll let him stay over on the 23rd..."

Comments

[sexxyful.livejournal.com]

I always thought that I'd never go past kissing for the first 2 weeks, at least, of a relationship, but my current boyfriend fingered me and gave me my first orgasm the day that we made our relationship official. So I think it depends on the person. I just do what I'm comfortable with doing.