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Sunday my boyfriend and i decided to have sex for the first time and it didnt really hurt all that bad, but i bled a pretty good bit, enough to get on him,and everytime i whipe its there. the blood when i whipped was very light and went away by the next day, but the problem is.. when we were having sex i stopped him before we really got to go at it, because i was scared and just kinda lost the mood. So Tuesday we tried again only to just get started once again then my roommate came home so we had to stop, still i bled just a little, and only when i whipped. So last night we finally got to have sex and really have it.. it still hurt a little but blood got all over the bottom of his condom and when i went to the bathroom all that night i had blood when i whipped and it is still a little off color when ive whipped today.
Is it normal for a girls first few times to bleed this way, and my lower stomach has hurt pretty bad all these times too. My roommate and most of my friend either didnt bleed at all, or just a little..none did like i have, so im wondering if something is wrong or am i just made this way...any advice is helpful.

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[dipshtt3737.livejournal.com]

I think most people bleed when they whip their vaginas...

Haha just a joke. You sound normal to me.

[c-isforcoolkid.livejournal.com]

lmfao, exactly what I was thinking.

[meshisseky.livejournal.com]

your icon is pretty awesome

[jocelina.livejournal.com]

People can have very different first-time experiences, so it's not surprising that yours was different from that of your roommate and friends'. Some women bleed a lot, some a little bit, some not at all. I don't think what you're describing sounds abnormal at all.

You might find some of the comments on this entry (http://community.livejournal.com/vaginapagina/3174821.html) and this one (http://community.livejournal.com/vaginapagina/8702284.html) reassuring/helpful, as they feature members describing their own (greatly varied) first-time sex experiences.

[eclare.livejournal.com]

That's precisely what happened to me. It took several times before I felt comfortable. I was pretty young, too.

[shes-fake.livejournal.com]

i was 12. sad.

[dolmena.livejournal.com]

It might take a little time for your hymen to get out of the way completely. Also, sometimes sex causes cramps, especially if it's the first time or really vigorous. (I also get this weird bruised feeling if the guy's penis hits my cervix a lot.) Depending on what's going on, you might talk to your boyfriend about trying a little different angle, or putitng his penis in more slowly or more gently, and see if that helps with the cramps.

hymen help

[tabiris-words.livejournal.com]

Depending how large he is, he may have torn you a little bit (hence the residual bleeding).

He also may not have broken your hymen all the way. Mine got broken the first time when a guy was fingering me (HORRIBLY PAINFUL WAY TO LOSE IT by the way), and I spotted for a few days. But when I had sex with him for the first time, I still bled a bit. It may be that your hymen wasn't torn all the way the first time.

Cramping is normal too, you're using muscles in a way you've never used them before.

A lot of girls don't bleed because we live in a world of bicycles, gymnastics, horseback riding, wrestling, and fingering, all which can cause the hymen to break pre-sex.

[sparkle-lite.livejournal.com]

I lost my virginity at 16, but my boyfriend fingered me like 2 or 3 times before and I bled a little each time...more the first time, and then when we actually had a good long session of "the real thing" I didn't bleed anymore. I think it's just the fact that the hymen doesn't completely tear until it's been stretched a few times.

[leads-to-sex.livejournal.com]

Um... what do you mean by "when I whipped"?

[drachenfach.livejournal.com]

I would assume the OP means when she wiped after sex or going to the toilet.