https://midnightsphinx.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] midnightsphinx.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] vaginapagina2006-09-29 11:38 am
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cant orgasm during sex

Alright, I have no proublem having an orgasm, or even multiple ones... but I cant recieve one through intercourse. This has never really bothered me, but I have been growing curious as to what that may feel like.

I have done different positions with my partner, and although they feel REALLY GOOD, its more of this consistent, "nice" feeling, as opposed to the rising peak of an orgasm.

Is there any tips you can give me? Or can some people just simple *not* orgasm during intercourse?

[identity profile] stenodork.livejournal.com 2006-09-30 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
first of all, i have to be really stimulated to begin with.
so that means lots of foreplay.

i can only have an orgasm through PIV sex if i'm on top and totally control.
that means my husband CAN'T move at all.
no thrusting, nothing.
so it's just me, lying on top of him, grinding him.
it sounds kind of awkward, but i want my turn too!

we usually can't do this until he's about to ejaculate because otherwise the stimulation doesn't work for him and he loses his boner.