VCH Piercing

[raining-aprils.livejournal.com]

Hello. :) So, I've decided to get a VCH (vertical clit hood) piercing. And I'm wondering what all ya'll knew about it or even if any of you had one or knew of any really good reference sites regarding that specific piercing or what-have-you.

The biggest concern I have is healing time, because my partner and I don't get to see each other except for once every couple of weeks and so we get straight to the sex when we do get to see each other. He says that he wouldn't have (vaginal) sex (so, the plus would I'd still be getting oral and anal, either way) with me until after it's healed, because he doesn't want to risk getting it infected, but how long does it take for it to heal and when can you have sex again after getting it done?

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Re: Maintainer Note

[raining-aprils.livejournal.com]

Yikes. Sorry. I definitely didn't mean to imply that at all.

Re: Maintainer Note

[frolicnaked.livejournal.com]

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Re: Maintainer Note

[raining-aprils.livejournal.com]

Yes, I definitely agree.