Libido Loss

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Hey all, I'm a 19 year old female with libido trouble. I'm rarely in the mood, and when I do have sex I have trouble staying wet down there. It's very frustrating and upsetting. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now, (I've known him for 3.5) and we've fooled around a little (very minimal) and we've had sex 3 times. He's never gotten off through intercourse, and that makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong, he says I'm not but thats how I feel. I never want to have sex , I think it might be because I was raped in 2003. He knows about it, and says he's not going to hurt me, and I know that. I just don't know if he fully understands how I feel.

It's upsetting to both of us, and I feel horrible. I don't know what to do to help it.

Help

Comments

[robynchick.livejournal.com]

Seek counseling! You have a right to a normal life and normal sex life =)