my vagina floods...

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

Ok, another question...

When I have sex with this newest person I'm with, I literally flood the place. It's not urine, I'm assuming it's my own female fluids or my own cum, but it leaves puddles on the bed, drips all over everything. The guy says it's awesome lol. But it's a little wet ya know? lol. Is there any way to LESSEN the amount of fluid that comes out of me during sex? This has only happened with me with one other person. Granted it's the best sex I've ever had, but he's having to wash his sheets quite a bit. I'm usually really wet, but this seems really excessive to me.

Any advice?

Thanks!

PS you guys are awesome!!!!

Comments

[joteacherjo.livejournal.com]

That happens to me at times. I think its a combination of your stuff and the guys cum as well...mostly the guys though.

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

it happens before he cums...

[joteacherjo.livejournal.com]

hmm, my guess would be its your cum and maybe his precum?

[kitty--butler.livejournal.com]

Precum is not normally in big enough amounts to make much difference.

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

lol thanks. I figured it was, just not had this happen quite at this amount before

[queensugar.livejournal.com]

There actually is a product that I've seen at some sex stores that is designed to decrease a woman's wetness. At first I thought it was really bizarre, but since talking to women whose sex life is actually hindered somewhat by how wet they get, it now makes sense to me.

I suppose it's also for people like me who personally find sex more enjoyable when we're only moderately wet... when I'm very wet, I don't find sex as pleasurable for me.

Now, I have no idea what the name is, how it works, or whether or not it's good for you. All I know is that there is something out there to make things a little less torrential.

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

thanks, I'll keep an eye out. I have less sensation when i'm gushing... but being dry is painful so i need something to help me be inbetween...

[ncsu-lady.livejournal.com]

I do that when I have a g-spot orgasm.

I second the towel. Lucky for me, my fiancee finds it quite hot. Though sometimes it would be nice if he didnt perpetuate it...

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

LOL it happens the most when I'm on top and control the movement so I cant blame him on it. He says it's hot to have it running down his balls.

[vala-raaay.livejournal.com]

HAHAHA.. my guy says the exact same thing!! i'm always like, "oh god, i'm sorry! i'm all over the place!" and he just says it's the hottest thing ever to feel a girl's wetness.
and also, he told me that when i'm dripping like that.. it means that i'm really into it, and that turns him on EVEN MORE

[fluffopuff19.livejournal.com]

haha I get like that too... SOOOO bad. I'm like oh shit it's everywhere! But guys always seemed to be really turned on by it so I don't mind.

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

any clues as to why it happens more with this one person than anyone else i've been with?

Or maybe it's just that my body has changed (it's been about a year and a half since my last partner, i took time off...)

[fluffopuff19.livejournal.com]

hmm well for me... it depends on the person. Maybe this guy turns you on way more than the other and it's better sex. That's when I'm the worst. Don't you love it?

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

Yup.... best sex i've ever had... first time i actually orgasmed from piv sex :)

First time i've orgasmed with a guy...

guess i really am bi lol

[fluffopuff19.livejournal.com]

yeah I've never gotten off from sex. I can get myself off in about 10 seconds... but the only way a guy can get me off is if he eats me out... it sucks :(

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

lol i can get myself off a lot faster too... can't get off with oral (at least havent found anyone yet who could).

[photobooth15501.livejournal.com]

god I am the same way, all my friends have orgasms from oral sex, but to me it's on the same level as like.. a good foot rub.

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

hehehe... yup. I'm like um are you done yet? can we move on?

[fluffopuff19.livejournal.com]

I don't get off from every guy with oral. They have to be talented haha... I'm always almost there and then they change the way of doing it and I lose it.. ugh.

[photobooth15501.livejournal.com]

ditto!!!!

[weemumlessmngrl.livejournal.com]

As another female cummer, I feel your pain, lol!

I always do the towel. But generally? I think I know more guys who don't mind washing the sheets because of how it gets dirty then ones that mind you spilling all over the place.

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

Do you do this more depending on techniques used/positions used? or more with some people than with others? That's what is confusing me... i've never gone THIS much before him... lol

[cialynia.livejournal.com]

Just use a few towels.

[greenigma21.livejournal.com]

this is going to be no help to you whatsoever, but did you know there's a vagina monologue about that very thing? you can read it if you want, the script is posted online somewhere. its actually called "the flood" and it's one of my favorites.

[elmofrog.livejournal.com]

yeah, i've seen the vagina monologues :) it's awesome :)

[8falling8star8.livejournal.com]

the only way to make it stop is to stop enjoying him so much.
so i wouldn't worry about it. :)

[xiola-blue.livejournal.com]

Normal-at least to me it is. I have it happen with my husband and I-it doesnt always happen everytime we have sex but it does occur often. It's like a gush of liquid-and we use condoms so it's definately not his stuff mixing in there. We've smelled it and well he's tasted it and it isnt urine..
The husband loves it. and so do I so enjoy

[lunexx00.livejournal.com]

Prolly just female ejaculation.
Totally normal, just use a towel underneath you guys.
Have fun. :]

[lascive.livejournal.com]

This happens with me sometimes too, but I don't really see anything you can do about it besides put down a towel.

The funny thing in my case though is that it generally happens most during oral sex - sometimes it's a gush but often it's a less noticeable but steady trickle - so for the longest time I just though my bf had a drooling problem (I could always feel stuff dripping down but I rarely felt it come out of me). It wasn't until maybe a month ago that I was complaining about the rather large puddle in the bed and he looked at me and said "that is NOT me," and then started grinning. It was one of those lightbulb moments for me. I proceeded to have a giggle fit ;)

So yeah, I've been gushing in my bf's mouth since forever and had no idea! :D