You're right, I guess I'm really not that comfortable with myself. Even reading about fingers makes me shiver. *laughs* Though it's true that I can let myself touch myself more intimately than my boyfriend. (Though even with myself I haven't been very intimate at all. The most intimate example is that when we wanted to look at the clit, I pulled up the hood, not him.)

I think the mirror is probably a good idea, explore and know where things are so I'm not guessing all the time. Though this will be slow-going I expect...massaging doesn't sound too bad, but fingers...it's going to take some getting used to. *laughs*

Though the Getting To Know Our Bodies thing sounds kind of fun. That's a good idea! =) Thanks for everything!