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[-cestlavie-.livejournal.com]

Okay this question doesn't actually have to do with any physical malady, but I don't know where else to ask this question. I know   people have weird sexual fantasies but I think I may be sexually perverse. I have two consistant fantasies. One always involves a guy that isn't my boyfriend - generally a guy I have hooked up with - or sometimes even strangers. The other deals with rape fantasies. I don't think I have fantasize about my boyfriend (of over 2 years). Is fantasizing about rape normal? Is fantasizing about other men all the time normal? Maybe I should also add that a guy can't make me orgasm. I can make myself orgasm EVERY time. . . but when it comes to men doing it, it doesn't work. I can show a guy how I masturbate, but even if they do it exactly the same way, nothing comes of it. So it's kind of like every sexual part of me is retarded. If anyone has any insight, I would appreciate it.

Comments

[agata.livejournal.com]

The word "rape" makes me feel really uncomfortable. Why not just say... "I fantasize about being dominated" and not "rape"... ?

[lindsey-nichole.livejournal.com]

because some people do fantasize about being raped.

being dominated and raped are two totally different things.

[arbore.livejournal.com]

Yeah, exactly. Mine aren't necessarily being "dominated" (although I LOVE, so it may tie in,) but it's the fact that some women (like I) actually fantasize about being RAPED. Weird, I know haha.

[-cestlavie-.livejournal.com]

i mean being raped is forced to have sex against your will and being dominated is having consenual [sp] sex where ur partner takes control. i agree that it is different too.

[dierdreceilidh.livejournal.com]

Yep it's different. And some people fantasize about being raped.