Vagina? Lesbian anyone?

[garygetsnolove.livejournal.com]

I want to clear up some things that I had asked a new member who happens to be a fabulously patient and kind person.

I asked her if she was a true lesbian.

I want to elaborate on that, just for a minute.

No one should ever have to prove how much of a lesbian they are. Right? I totally agree that no one but You can decide what you would like to call yourself in regards to your sexuality.

But does your vagina know?

I mean, if you are the type of lesbian that cannot get turned on mentally by a man, is your vagina gonna know, and is it gonna be more tense?

In the same aspect, if you're a lesbian who can also enjoy sex with men, mentally and physically, is your vagina down with penis?

Does your vagina have a direct link with your brain when it comes to this stuff, and does it have more say in how you feel about having sex than we ever thought?

One time I "did stuff" with a guy. I mean, nothing involving vaginal sex, but other stuff. And although my body was aroused, my brain was not. Im a lesbian, and have known this for a long time. So I know that I could probably have sex with a guy, and I could probably be turned on. But I think my vagina might put up a stink. It might tighten, tense up and not let the penis in. It might scream in pain afterwards. Is this possible?

Thanks for your comments, in advance.

Comments

Re: My buck fiddy

[garygetsnolove.livejournal.com]

You did not understand what I wrote if you have a problem with the snip phrase "lesbian enough"

"say that someone is lesbian enough to not want a penis in her, is her vag gonna clench up?"

I will rephrase it for you.

If a woman is the type of lesbian that does not want penis in her is her vag gonna enjoy it or will it rebel?

I am in no way saying that you have to be graded on your level of lesbianism or that a lesbian can be "not lesbian enough" if thats what you were thinking.

I also disagree with you, I do think that a vagina knows and has a direct connection with your brain, just like the rest of your body

Re: My buck fiddy

[bookgrrrl.livejournal.com]

By saying "Lesbian enough" you are quantifying the word lesbian. If you didn't mean that, fine, but you should watch your phrasing if you don't want to be misunderstood. "Enough" means: Sufficient to meet a need or satisfy a desire; adequate OR an adequate number or quantity.

I don't know how you expected anyone to take it any other way.

And yes, your vagina has a connection to your brain. As does every other part of your body. But it is silly to say that my feet "know" what shoes I'm wearing. I think I do understand what you're trying to say, but I can't say that I agree with you.