2010-11-28

excessive wetness/douche

I always seem to be slightly to moderately wet, in that area, even when I am not at all aroused. There is never any discharge in my panties just wetness and I'm pretty sure it is not sweat. Is this normal?
And also my second question what is the best way to keep clean? I have heard that douche can cause yeast infections and no longer use it but worry about staying clean.

Starting HBC late

Due to insurance/pharmacy ridiculousness, I was unable to obtain my new pack of Ortho Tricyclen Lo until this morning. Yesterday at 6 pm was supposed to be the start of my new pack. I read the Vulvapaedia about starting late and it just says take it as early as possible and you're fine. But I distinctly remember people on this forum cautioning very very strongly about remembering to start the pack after exactly 7 days of placebos.

Will I be okay if I just start the pill this morning? Do I start the pill this morning as Day 1 and take every pill this month at 11 am? Or do I take the first pill at 11 and then the next pill at 6pm to start my normal timing for the month?

Thanks lovelies!

Current Mood: curious

Question

Ok I been off BC since the last part of Oct, I had some spotting the 4th of november just a few days. I have had unprotected sex since I have been off my bc pills, when should I take a pregnancy test? Because I don't even know where I am in my cycle because I don't know if that was my period I had or if it was where I went off the bc pills? Any advice?

Current Mood: excited

Faking Orgasms?

Hello Vagina Pagina members!

My name is Shannon, I am currently doing research on the Fake Orgasm in the United States. I'd like to invite you to partake in a survey that I am conducting on the topic as well as to participate in a discussion on this forum!

The Survey:
The survey is anonymous and voluntary. It will take about 20-30 minutes to complete. It has been approved by the Institutional Review Board at SUNY New Paltz. You will be asked some questions about your personal experience and also some general questions about orgasm. If you feel uncomfortable at any time you may stop. You must be 18 or older to take this survey. You may contact me with comments or questions at nporgasmresearch@gmail.com the link is below:
Click here to take survey
*link is fixed

Discussion: You can discuss anything you wish on the topic, but I'll post some information and questions here to go off of. Have fun talking about it! I can't wait to see what you have to say.
Based on my research so far:
-75.5% of 689 women (who have had sex) have faked an orgasm. Why is this number so high? Do you think women feel pressured to fake orgasm's if so, why?
-Out of a smaller sample size so far 45.4% of the 148 men (who have had sex) who have taken the survey also say they have faked an orgasm before. So you can see that men are also faking orgasms. Where is this pressure coming from?
-How do you feel about orgasm in a sexual experience? What is it's place? Does it effect your views of a successful sexual experience? Is it one of the goals?
-Have you faked an orgasm, how do you fake one?
-How would you feel if your partner was faking orgasms with you?

Pain

Let's make this one short...
Slight, random itch sometimes
Pain during intercourse upon entry (lots of pressure), achey/sore feeling after.
Hemmorhoids found around the same time as sex got painful.
No BV
No yeast
No STDs
Lubricated during sex (oral sex before intercourse or we use lube)
The doctors are basically bored with me after all negative cultures and no abnormalities in two separate ultrasounds.

Any suggestions? :(

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Weird question:

How long does it take for cum to leave the vagina? Minutes? Hours? Days? Is there any way to get it out faster?

I'm asking because my guy is, understandably, slightly skeeved out by eating me out after he cums inside of me.. even a day or two after. Is it possible that my wetness and his cum are kind of mixed together?