"queefing" during certain positons

[imuhstarr.livejournal.com]

 k so hopefully this flies alright with all of you

every time my bf and I have sex doggy style, I queef like MAD afterwards
of course we laugh it off most of the time, which is good ...but it rrreally irritates me sometimes since I quite like doggystyle (although I hate the term for it, blegh)

is there a way to cut down on this a bit? any tips, my dears?
I'm trying to stay on top of my kegels. I can't seem to hold them for very long though (tips?), and I'm not sure that's the problemo anyway

thanks so much!!

Comments

[fallconsmate.livejournal.com]

get used to them. :) its how you're situated that is forcing the air into your vagina, making the dreaded squeak afterwards. rear-entry position can also be done with you lying prone and him crouched above you, with his knees on the outside of your legs and your legs closed and flat on the bed.

i never got the queefs that way, and yep, that was always a good position for me, too. if you can count to three (one one thousand, two one thousand, three one thousand) its effective enough for kegels. just do a LOT of reps. :D

[imuhstarr.livejournal.com]

hm makes sense
but ah that position you explained is one of ma faaaves actually hahaha
and thanks for the count on the kegels!

[fallconsmate.livejournal.com]

i MISS that position. however, tall fat hubby and short fat wife both with arthritis issues means that you must get creative and find things that work for both of you. ;)

[noodz.livejournal.com]

This happens to me too. The only way I've found to prevent it is to keep my upper body on the same level as my ass, rather than have my butt up in the air.

[neek-love.livejournal.com]

I second this! If I'm leaning down on my elbows with my back arched in, it's queef city. Staying up with arms straight makes a huge difference.

[callme-boots.livejournal.com]

LOL OMG QUEEF CITY

[imuhstarr.livejournal.com]

ah awesome k thanks I'll try that

[http://users.livejournal.com/_forcemajeure_/]

just wanna say instead of calling it "doggystyle" 'cause I hate the name too I just call it "from behind."

[rojarabbits.livejournal.com]

me too!

[elephantus45.livejournal.com]

I found that his penis can push the air inside of me, or if he for some reason leave my vagina and then pushes back in that's how the air gets inside. So if he just stays inside of me, then the air is not a problem.

And I seriously hate!!! when the air gets in there. If feels weird and uncomfortable and I hate it exiting...queefing ugh. P

[misspaigeb.livejournal.com]

Sometimes I just put a finger in when I can tell there's air in there, and then try to push it out. It doesn't make the same embarrassing noise because the finger kind of prevents it. But I hate having sex when air has been pushed in there... so uncomfortable!!!

[brigittefires.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I sometimes get to the point where I can't even orgasm anymore with the air in there. I've made him stop so I can push it out and switch positions which isn't the sexiest thing in the world but it is the nice thing about relationships--being comfortable enough to just deal with it to get back to the fun part.

[meshuggenah42.livejournal.com]

Keep your head even with or above your ass. I prefer on my stomach, sometimes on all fours. Also, keep your legs closer together when you're on all fours.

[brigittefires.livejournal.com]

Yep, happens to me too. That position just seems to force air inside me no matter what we do. I just try to make a point of using the bathroom right afterward and trying to force it out.