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vaginapagina2003-10-15 02:22 pm
ldygabilan.livejournal.com) wrote in vaginapagina2003-10-15 02:22 pm
Question...
Why doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me. I mean... we fool around and do sexual things. But, the actual ACT of sex doesn't seem appealing to him anymore.. ever.
He'll go down on me, use the vibrator on me and he'll even jack off to me. But, he hasn't been in the mood for actual intercourse in what seems like weeks.
It's all fun when he does that other stuff to me.. but I really would just to have him, you know? What can I do? Is this my fault??
He'll go down on me, use the vibrator on me and he'll even jack off to me. But, he hasn't been in the mood for actual intercourse in what seems like weeks.
It's all fun when he does that other stuff to me.. but I really would just to have him, you know? What can I do? Is this my fault??
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Even though sex with my boyfriend is very satisfying, sometimes I'd prefer just to have oral sex (or 69 with him), or just spend some time w/ myself and a dirty story website :P Other times, I'd rather just give and not receive myself.
If really varies due to stress, energy level, and just horniness at the time. He's probably like that.
I'd say don't stress too much over it, unless he starts ignoring you in other ways too.