Oral Sex vs Sensitive Nosed Boyfriend

[xvmoonchildvx.livejournal.com]

Hi everyone. I just joined today, and I read thru pages of postings here, and didn't really find an answer to my question. It may come off as making my boyfriend sound horrible, or make me sound icky, but he's really not, and I'm not either...it's just this one issue we (I) have:
He rarely ever has oral sex with me. And I do it often for him. He says he just has a really sensitive nose, and the smell puts him off. :( This worries me, because I use feminine wash and bathe on a regular basis, so I'm pretty sure I'm healthy. I was wondering if there is a better wash out there that can make the scent...I dunno..something he might prefer...like citrus...(my mother pretty much never explained things to me when I was younger and had to discover the joys of menstruation, wash, and sex all by myself without any direction, and I don't really have any friends to consult about this). I just really miss oral sex. My last boyfriend was all about it, and never seemed to mind my scent. So I figure it must be an issue of the current one.

Sorry if this was covered some place that I missed. And thanks for taking the time to read. :)

Comments

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I have exactly the same issue. I'm slightly strong-smelling (probably because I drink coffee) but not icky. It's just that the boy I live with has an extremely sensitive nose. I don't use "feminine wash" -- it's no better than gentle soap (sometimes worse, if it's scented) but soap's not good for my vulva either. And "feminine wash" is usually more expensive than soap.

Two things that I've found work best for me and the boy I live with are having oral sex fresh out of the shower, the moment I'm out and drying off, or using a tiny bit of very neutral-tasting lube on my vulva. It sort of dilutes it. At any rate, given his nose, I wouldn't expect him to go down on me if I'm more than an hour out of the shower.

(One reason I know my pussy's fine, just a little strong, is that my other boyfriend says that's the case.)

[xvmoonchildvx.livejournal.com]

Oh wow, didn't think about that at all... I drink coffee as well . :/ Damn the caffiene addiction.