ext_154833 ([identity profile] creativexangst.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] vaginapagina2010-04-14 10:51 pm

Girl On Girl

I need to ask a question thats so stupid, it's going behind a cut.

How, praytell, does a women have sex with another women? Now I realize this is a stupid question, especially for me because I've dated women before-but truthfully, we never went very far, and I've had threesomes, which consisted of the girls making out and the guy pounding me. So how does it work? I've only gone down on a chick once, and it was what gave me the courage to have guys go down on me (OH! This isnt gross at all!!) Anyway, I have a couple that adore me, and I them back, and I'm very interested in both of them, but as she started out as gay before meeting her husband, I dont want to disappoint. Any ideas/tips/tricks would be great. I feel silly that I've made it to my 20's being bi and not really getting it. My biggest problem is that I've never watched hardcore porn before, methinks. Thanks!!

[identity profile] atalanta0jess.livejournal.com 2010-04-15 02:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, this.

I am partnered with a man, but honestly, if I was choosing a new sex partner, someone who had seen a lot of porn and thought it was instructional would not be someone who was at the top of my list. Porn =/= real sex!

[identity profile] paraxeni.livejournal.com 2010-04-15 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, two girls sucking on each end of a dildo, having 'oral' that not only leaves every facial feature exposed but never involves any wetness, and three inch fingernails - so not good. I cannot stomach any kind of 'girl-on-girl' (don't even get me started on how much that phrase creeps me out)pornography.

Exploring lesbianism through F/F porn is like watching Fiddler on the roof in preparation for conversion to Judaism.

[identity profile] thebipolarstar.livejournal.com 2010-04-15 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
this cracked me up... i think the same things... there is nothing sexy about two girls sucking on each end of a dildo. at.all.

[identity profile] paraxeni.livejournal.com 2010-04-15 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
It would be more of a "Don't do this" guide IMO.