Backflow?

[happyapathy.livejournal.com]

Hi everyone...I just discovered this community, and it feels a bit weird writing to something called "vaginapagina", but I'm trying to not feel too embarassed about it. ;0)

I only scrolled back a month or two, so if this has already been covered, then I'm sorry in advance.

Okay, my friend and I had a long LJ comment-discussion going about sex without a condom, and what happens when the guy finishes inside of the girl. She complained that every single time it runs right out of her, and that it makes a big old mess (and it's definitely not her fluids). I was wondering if anyone else has experienced this whole 'backflow' problem. I don't want to be having quickies in weird places only to find myself covered with his jizz. If it's going to run out of me all the time, then I might as well use condoms, because to me, sticky legs are more inconvenient than condoms.

Any thoughts?

I've been on the pill for a month, and will soon experience the fun of unprotected sex everywhere I can possibly manage.

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Hello, my name is Katie. Nice to be here.

Comments

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I like it too, though I don't really get to experience it.

It reminds me of how I just had really great sex. It's like afterglow.

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[dearanxiety.livejournal.com]

yeah, totally.

and the other thing is that it makes me feel close to my boy. ya know...we both got tested and i went on the pill because sex with a condom wasn't enough (physically or spiritually (if that's the right word). and i don't get to experience it much either. first of all, it had been a long time (until i met my boy), and second of all he lives far away so we see each other only every so often.

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I love not using condoms, but I need them for birth control. I have two significant others, and I'm only fluid bonded with one of them. But even with him, condoms keep me from getting pregnant. They're important, that way.

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[dearanxiety.livejournal.com]

yeah, definitely important that way! i'm really lucky that the pill doesn't do bad things to me and that i'm happy on it, so i can use that instead of condoms. but i've mostly used condoms in the past.