https://wearesunshine.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] wearesunshine.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] vaginapagina2008-07-06 09:25 pm

i have no idea how to use my vibrator.

so yesterday i made my first trip to good vibrations and bought my first vibrator, the turbo glider. i was (am!) thrilled about it. so last night i'm in bed, gettin' ready to make a new best friend, when i realized something.

i have no idea what to do with it! i get the part where it vibrates and then you have a magical orgasm that doesn't involve finger cramps, but i'm missing all of the in-between. i mean...where should i start? WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO BE DOING WITH THIS THING?! i really want this to work out...but i'm just really overwhelmed by it.

thanks all...i kinda feel like a nitwit for having to ask this, but hey, at least i have a medium in which to do the asking?

[identity profile] kalieris.livejournal.com 2008-07-07 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
http://sexuality.about.com/od/vibrators/ht/use_a_vibrator.htm

http://vibrators-sex-toys-reviews.com/

The second has a lot of topics, one of which is "How to use a vibrator to achieve orgasm."

Happy experimenting! :D

[identity profile] michigan-loverz.livejournal.com 2008-07-07 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
You can insert it into your vagina to see how it feels. You can rub it over and around your clit and other body parts for stimulation, anywhere erogenous.

Good luck :)

[identity profile] fey-bot.livejournal.com 2008-07-07 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
just relax and begin on the lowest vibrate setting. adjust it higher or lower to go with what feels good and take your time. it takes a bit of comfort i guess?

[identity profile] chiyo-no-saru.livejournal.com 2008-07-07 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Do whatever feels good! Just experiment putting it all kinds of different places.

[identity profile] frolicnaked.livejournal.com 2008-07-08 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
These how-to guides from Babeland (http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/howtouseavibrator) and A Woman's Touch (http://www.a-womans-touch.com/article/9/8/Tips_on_using_a_vibrator.html) are some of the better ones I've seen.

These suggestions may or may not work perfectly for you -- but it's a lot of fun "practicing". :)