I just have to reiterate the DON'T USE TWO CONDOMS thing. That's a higher risk of breakage b/c of the increased friction.
Pre-cum...YES, theoretically, there are some sperm in pre-cum, and it only takes one to get pregnant. It happens. It's just very difficult, especially w/ correct condom usage (i.e. put one on before you even go near her), to get pregnant that way--b/c there are so few sperm. Based on what you've said I could say I'm 99% sure she's not pregnant. But you are right to be careful regardless.
Since you guys are SO freaked out about pregnancy, it's great that you're being careful & trying to find out this info. She might want to look into getting on birth control. It'll regulate her periods & protect you both from an unwanted pregnancy. If she's not ready to tell her parents she's having sex, she could just say she has really irregular periods & would like to get on birth control so they're more predictable.
It could also help both of you to read up a little about sexual health and reproduction, since you're both newly sexually active. It might ease your fears if you learn about the anatomy, physiology, how birth control & other methods of contraception work, etc.
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Pre-cum...YES, theoretically, there are some sperm in pre-cum, and it only takes one to get pregnant. It happens. It's just very difficult, especially w/ correct condom usage (i.e. put one on before you even go near her), to get pregnant that way--b/c there are so few sperm. Based on what you've said I could say I'm 99% sure she's not pregnant. But you are right to be careful regardless.
Since you guys are SO freaked out about pregnancy, it's great that you're being careful & trying to find out this info. She might want to look into getting on birth control. It'll regulate her periods & protect you both from an unwanted pregnancy. If she's not ready to tell her parents she's having sex, she could just say she has really irregular periods & would like to get on birth control so they're more predictable.
It could also help both of you to read up a little about sexual health and reproduction, since you're both newly sexually active. It might ease your fears if you learn about the anatomy, physiology, how birth control & other methods of contraception work, etc.