"dtmfa. quicker, cleaner, and then you can go find someone who's into you."

I think it's potentially misreading a situation to assume that if someone has a low sex drive, it means that person is not "into" his or her sex partner, regardless of the genders in question. There are any number of reasons a person can be experiencing low sex drive -- hormonal imbalances, illness, stress, strains in other areas of the relationship, etc. -- and not lack of sexual interest in a partner is only one of them.