Haha, that's it exactly.
Agreed agreed, and I think I'd resent it pretty strongly if a new partner judged me or objected obnoxiously to my pubic hair - the state of my pubes is entirely my own business and decided according to my comfort. My partner appreciates that; sometimes he tells me what a gorgeous colour my pubic hair is and how much he likes to bury his face in it. His comment, after we'd been talking bout it - hair on legs, armpits, mons pubis, expectations thereof and ignoring them was that he "...wouldn't have it or you any other way." I like all his hair too. Happy hairy couple, who would otherwise be equally hairy single people. Possibly not quite so happy. Anyway, keep all your hair styled the way you like it!