https://staffwriter.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] staffwriter.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] vaginapagina2006-10-17 06:52 pm

Vagina pain during sex and peeing

Hello.

Please help talk some sense into me! I was hoping maybe someone could help me out with a little advice.

Sunday night i had sex. Last night, Monday night, me and the bf tried to have sex again. The key word being "tried." It seemed as thought the right side of the inside of my vaginal wall was in too much pain for even a finger to touch it. However, before trying to have sex i didn't feel any discomfort.

I asked my bf too look at it and see if it was red. He is a boy and i guess can't tell the difference. I tried to look in a mirror but i couldn't really tell either. I thought that maybe it was torn from the sex the night before? So we stopped all the sexual activity and i decided to take a shower and just rise myeslf off down there. I did that and had no problems. However, it hurt when i urinated. I wasn't sure if maybe i had/have a UTI, or if the urine touching some raw/torn skin just bruned a little. You know what i mean? Today i peed and it hurt a little, but not as much.

So one of my question is, how can i tell if it's a uti or if it's just sore from the sex?

It doesn't hurt when i do anything except pee. Last night i woke up in the middle of the night and had to go pee, which is a little odd for me. It was almost like i peed my pants whlie sleeping, i can't really explain it.

I was told before that i had genital herpes. After being told that, i was tested and was told i did NOT have it. I wasn't planning on getting tested for it again untill i'm due for a pap in 2 months. Could it be possible that i'm having a herpes outbreak but only on the inside, and only on that one side of my vaginal canal?

Also, my bf bought some new lube and we had used it Sunday for the first time. I had put it on my hand before to see if i had a reaction to it and i hadn't. So maybe the lube caused the irritation? I can't read what's in it because it's all in german. It's a silicon based lube.

Has anyone ever had a reaction like this from a new lube?

I feel like im starting to overreact, and i don't want to. I've been having sex with the same boy for 5 years and i don't even remember not being able to do it because i was in pain.

Do you ever just get sore from sex for a day or two after? Even if it's not real rough sex? I'm not swollen at all it jsut kind of feels raw when i touch it with my finger. I figured i might go see a doctor but i'm not sure who to go to. I'd go to a gyno if it was herpes or soemthing sex related, but for a UTI i'd go to my regular docotor.

Any advice is really appreciated.

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