He is being unacceptably rude about this and you should break up with him. Nobody is entitled to be this selfish.
As for "needing" sex --
Most people sometimes have the experience of really, really wanting sex. Some people have this experience frequently. On the average, men tend to have it more frequently than women.
As long as a person isn't harming anyone by really, really wanting sex, then there's nothing at all wrong with this.
On the other hand, there's nothing at all wrong with not wanting sex.
On the other other hand, it's not fair to expect a guy to be in a sexless relationship if that's not what he wants. If you don't want sex and he does, break up with him.
Either find a partner who also doesn't want sex or don't have a partner.
On the other other other hand (which is the hand I started with in the first place), nobody is ever entitled to be a jerk because they want sex, and he has been (and I suspect thinks that he's entitled to be, and so is likely to be a jerk in the future), so you should break up with him.
Just tell him that you two don't see eye-to-eye on this and will be happier with other partners.
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As for "needing" sex --
Most people sometimes have the experience of really, really wanting sex. Some people have this experience frequently. On the average, men tend to have it more frequently than women.
As long as a person isn't harming anyone by really, really wanting sex, then there's nothing at all wrong with this.
On the other hand, there's nothing at all wrong with not wanting sex.
On the other other hand, it's not fair to expect a guy to be in a sexless relationship if that's not what he wants. If you don't want sex and he does, break up with him.
Either find a partner who also doesn't want sex or don't have a partner.
On the other other other hand (which is the hand I started with in the first place), nobody is ever entitled to be a jerk because they want sex, and he has been (and I suspect thinks that he's entitled to be, and so is likely to be a jerk in the future), so you should break up with him.
Just tell him that you two don't see eye-to-eye on this and will be happier with other partners.