Why do you assume it's just innocent seduction? Why do you assume he doesn't know he's scaring her? She used the words "fight him off" to describe what she's doing, and she described a switch in personality when he doesn't get what he wants. That doesn't sound innocent to me. He might very well be aware that she's uncomfortable, yet continue to be threatening to her. It's not her job to nicely explain herself if he is being dominating and coercive, and not paying attention to her signals. If she's "fighting him off", he's probably aware that something is wrong.