On the other hand sex can be a very important part of a relationship.
I love having sex with my boy because it is a way for us to connect on a deeper level. Him and I are both very paranoid people too but we are very careful with condoms and he withdraws before he ejeculates (even with the condom on) which eases my mind and his. I tried HBC but it didn't work for me and no where will give me an IUD but I am still on the look out for different options. Unfortunatley FAM isn't an option for me because my periods are all over the shop.

:) I hope I helpped a little.