If you can't lube up naturally, please get lube. My boy and I like KY and also quite like ID Millennium, which is silicone-based (less is more!).

My boyfriend can't make me orgasm. I don't like oral; I can't do it with just my hands; he can't do it with just his hands. I need clitoral stimulation, even during sex, to get off. My solution? A small vibrator. I can hold it easily during sex, and I can use it other times too. I love it. It's pretty much the only way I can orgasm.