By saying "Lesbian enough" you are quantifying the word lesbian. If you didn't mean that, fine, but you should watch your phrasing if you don't want to be misunderstood. "Enough" means: Sufficient to meet a need or satisfy a desire; adequate OR an adequate number or quantity.

I don't know how you expected anyone to take it any other way.

And yes, your vagina has a connection to your brain. As does every other part of your body. But it is silly to say that my feet "know" what shoes I'm wearing. I think I do understand what you're trying to say, but I can't say that I agree with you.