I have just been so traumatized that i don't think i have any further questions.. at this point, ignorance is bliss and i don't wanna think about pregnancy anymore... the whole thought of it has become very unappealing.. i suppose i should just keep an image of a mini-me in mind and maybe that'll be all the motivation i need in the future.. however, in the interim, i think i'll focus on doubling up my protection, although i already use condoms and a nuvaring, i suppose i can add some spermicidal foam or gel to the mix for a third level of protection... hmm..