all of the messages asking you to move your post were from the chubbychicks community, which is strict with everyone (not just you) about staying on topic. this community, vaginapagina, is the perfect place to tell about your experience and ask questions. i belong to both communities too. i'm sorry you're feeling attacked right now. i honestly don't think anyone has a personal issue with you; there's just a strict rule in chubbychicks about staying on topic.