sometimes when I see posts like this anywhere on LJ (Im in some love advice comms too) I wonder if the person could just link or copy paste the post to their partner.
Im such a text based person, my bf and I talk all the time on IM or texts and we've talked about everything, including awkward sexual things. I actually wonder if it will hinder our relationship when we're no longer long distance and I wont be typing to him anywhere since I have problems voicing things in person.
anyway, if you can voice your opinions/thoughts/fears like this post, try to do them with your partner. I dont know why people frown upon things like email, when it can be easier to say whats on your mind, and the truth in text than in person.
just try to voice your thoughts to him in anyway you can, even if its sending him what you just wrote
i know it doesnt specifically answer your questions but its bc I feel like I dont have the experience with what your dealing with. but i still think you should talk to him, and i dont see anything wrong with typing things out if youre too nervous to talk in person.
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Im such a text based person, my bf and I talk all the time on IM or texts and we've talked about everything, including awkward sexual things. I actually wonder if it will hinder our relationship when we're no longer long distance and I wont be typing to him anywhere since I have problems voicing things in person.
anyway, if you can voice your opinions/thoughts/fears like this post, try to do them with your partner. I dont know why people frown upon things like email, when it can be easier to say whats on your mind, and the truth in text than in person.
just try to voice your thoughts to him in anyway you can, even if its sending him what you just wrote
i know it doesnt specifically answer your questions but its bc I feel like I dont have the experience with what your dealing with. but i still think you should talk to him, and i dont see anything wrong with typing things out if youre too nervous to talk in person.