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Hello all, I've actually taken myself off the sex market, so to speak, for a while. All my recent partners have just been mediocre at best, so I'm holding out for something better, probably within the context of an exclusive relationship. That being said, I'm not down about my decision, but I do need some tips about how to spice things up with myself! I've been successfully masturbating to orgasm since age 12 so I'm no stranger to it, or to trying some different techniques, but I thought I'd hear some favorites from other people. I'm mostly a clitoral stimulation kinda girl, some penetration is ok but won't get me there alone (when I'm alone anyway). I have some bullet type vibrators that I enjoy, and would like more but don't really have the finances for that right now. I've also been a fan of laying under a tub faucet in the past as well, but living with room mates this doesn't always work out so well. Also, any good porn sites out there? I usually rely on redtube, but there's only so many on there I like, mainly women-focused ones. ifeelmyself.com is AMAZING but I can't afford a membership right now :-/
Thanks everyone for any input or tips you may pass my way!
Thanks everyone for any input or tips you may pass my way!
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Date: 2012-02-08 01:18 am (UTC)i stumbled across this sub-reddit and it's been amazing. sometimes i have to do a little searching, but i always find something i'm into. they also seem to be really good with requests!
http://www.reddit.com/r/chickflixxx
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Date: 2012-02-08 01:32 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2012-02-09 07:59 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2012-02-08 01:54 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2012-02-08 03:50 am (UTC)masturbation does the trick for me, soooooo... ummm... getting
to the point, i watched this sex special a while back on cable.
and from what i understand of women, you maybe need to put yourself
in a kind of mood. like don't do the job to climax, if you do that,
you'll have less success.
inside of your mind, take yourself to a spiritual place while you're
doing the act. a forest. a river. a planet. anything like that.
make yourself the center of your own little universe while your,
doing that stuff, and really try not to worry about climaxing. enjoy
the feeling of the act while the act is taking place. but make your
self number one inside of or you universe you've created for yourself
in your imagination.
that should work.
but then agin, i'm a guy, and giving you advice second hand
i got from a woman on a tv show, so i've no idea if this is right :)
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Date: 2012-02-08 03:53 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2012-02-08 07:46 am (UTC)they do the job for me lol
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Date: 2012-02-10 09:19 pm (UTC)